Should My Child Skip a Grade?

A common question every parent of an advanced student asks them self at some point is, "Should my student skip a grade or more?"  There is no simple answer that is right for every student.  This post address skipping single and multiple grade levels.  At the end it discusses options for exceptional students besides skipping grades.  Let me just say that I am neither pro or con grade skipping as a general idea.   Here are some points you should consider.

1.  Are they advanced in all academic areas?  It is great for kids to be gifted in math and reading, but especially if you are considering skipping multiple grades, don't forget that there are also science and social studies standards they will be expected to meet.  Will they struggle in special area classes like PE or Art because of their motor skills?  Will they still test well in the classroom and on standardized tests?

2.  Will they be noticeably younger or smaller than other students? If so can they handle this difference?  I would never say avoid skipping a child because they are small.  I would say be aware of the different ways this might impact them emotionally.  Also if you want your child to be competitive in arts or athletics they may be behind  in these areas if they are more than a year younger. Being underdeveloped physically could result in low self-esteem for some children or make them a target for bullies.  Make sure your child is confident in who they are and what makes them exceptional.

3.  Are you prepared to allow them to be to exposed and interact in social situations that may be advanced for their age?  Whether it's dating or the pressure of going off to college early, they may be exposed to peer pressure and stress prematurely.  Make sure you take care to prepare them emotionally for these challenges.

4.  Can they emotionally handle the discipline expected of them?  My three year old daughter is doing first grade math at home, but there is no way I would drop her into a first grade classroom because she would not follow the rules or have the attention span to stay in her seat.  She's not sensitive to social protocol such as whispering or not picking her nose in public.

5.  Will skipping provide them additional opportunities or deprive them of opportunities?  If your child is skipping multiple grades and receives public recognition for being exceptional, it might attract attention of educators or philanthropists interested in investing time or money in your student.  They may qualify for special funding for college, or they may be deprived of funding because of their age.  Research what restrictions might apply in your state for scholarship programs.  When I was in high school a small percent of students who scored in the highest percentiles would be invited by the ASU Honors College to participate in a summer program that allowed you to take college classes for credit.  If your child is just going to be average at the next grade level up you might be doing them a disservice when it comes to opportunities that arise from standardized testing.

6.  Will your child become bored or unmotivated by staying at grade level?  Some students will learn they can just coast and put forth a minimal amount of effort to earn grades other students struggle to earn.  If your child does stay at grade level, make sure they are being provided with challenges and are offered gifted education if available in your district.  Make sure they aren't being labeled a behavior problem because they are bored and causing distractions to other students who don't work as quickly.  Teachers should offer alternative or additional work in this scenario.

7. Are you prepared for early graduation?  They should be able to handle navigating a college campus and dealing with the various people that might approach them from class to class.  From predators to sales reps, college campuses can attract all kinds. Educate them on how to handle strangers at this level.  They may be expected to do internships or activities that take them off the college campus and into the night hours.  Are they capable of navigating these events alone?  For some careers college extracurricular activities and leadership skills are a factor in hiring.  Make sure your student will get everything they need out of the college experience.  Make sure your college saving plan can be used early.  If they graduate at 15 but can't access the money until they are 18 you need new funding.

8.  What are your students social skills like?  While I do believe the nurture side plays a role in a child's social skills, I also strongly believe you are who you are.  There are some kids that will never "fit in."  It doesn't matter if they are home schooled or public schooled they will always march to the beat of their own drummer.  If this is your child and they are old enough to express their wishes with logic just ask them what they want.  Other kids are very outgoing and find making friends and fitting in easy as pie.  If this is your child then they will likely be successful at skipping at least a single grade.

Other options besides skipping grades at a public or private school.

If my daughter continues to progress through her school work at her current pace, she will test into third or fourth grade when she is supposed to be starting Kindergarten.  I tell you this so that you understand I have put a lot of thought into this matter. I'd like to tell you I have an answer for what we are going to do if she is really that advanced, but I don't.  At this point we just have to take the years as they come and evaluate what is best for her when she starts school.  There are more options than skipping.  

We will most likely home school the first few years until she can test into a self contained gifted class and then reevaluate.

 Homeschooling is not an option for everyone.  If your child can be left home alone, they could attend virtual school that allows them to enter whatever grade they can test into and work at their own pace.

  Check out what charter and private schools are in your area.  There are many accelerated charter schools here in Arizona.  There is even a accelerated private school run through ASU that allows students starting in sixth grade to work ahead graduating at 15 and earning 45-60 hours by 18. Don't let tuition be a deterrent. Many private schools offer scholarships, tuition assistance, and payment programs.  Find out if your state offers the tax credit program that allows people to pay their state taxes directly towards your students tuition instead of to the state.  Look at your states Department of Education website for a list of schools.

Self contained gifted classes are often filled with students working years ahead of their peers.  These teachers have taken extra classes and training specifically aimed at working with gifted children.

Concurrent enrollment- I attended both college and high school my senior year.  Many community colleges allow concurrent enrollment for advanced students.  Be aware that grades may carry over to your college GPA if taken at a University.

My niece skipped Kindergarten and has been very successful.  She has no problem socially or academically. I expect she will continue to thrive as she moves on form the fifth grade into the daunting teen years.  For her skipping was an excellent choice!  In today's age of technology more and more students are opting to work ahead early or obtain a GED.  I think the world is becoming more accepting of younger, advanced students entering college and the work force.

If you have a child who skipped more than two grades I would love to hear about how you made that decision and how they are doing in school!  Please share your insight in the comment section.

Products I Love for Phonics and Reading

In the beginning, kids learn their basic phonic sounds and then apply that knowledge to sight words.  You can find a list of Dolch sight words by grade level multiple places online by simply searching Kindergarten Dolch Sight Words List or whatever grade you need.  Many of my posts are on free products and DIY lessons.  This post is different because it is on products you can buy to help teach phonics, sight words, and reading.  If your student is already in Kindergarten ask their teacher for a list of the words they will be tested on this year.  If you are interested in electronic learning products check out my post on educational apps from August.

Alpha-Bug Step 'n' Spell is hugely popular with any kid who comes in our house.  You don't really have to do much teaching yourself with this product because it does so much! It sings the alphabet song, teaches phonic sounds, guides kids through spelling sight words, and as a bonus becomes a musical instrument with every letter a different pitch.  It has volume control and two levels of difficulty.
http://www.learningresources.com/product/alpha-bug+step+--8216-n--8217-+spell-reg-.do?search=basic&keyword=alpha+bug&sortby=bestSellers&page=1&

Three letter word puzzle flashcards are great to start teaching flashcards because they can put the words together using the picture as a visual aid.  Ask them to spell the word and sound it out phonetically when the puzzle is complete.
http://www.toysrus.com/product/prodpop.jsp?LargeImageURL=http%3A//TRUS.imageg.net/graphics/product_images/pTRU1-8864119dt.jpg&displayTab=enh&productId=10809999&totCount=0

Phonic Fun airplane by Leapfrog.  Find the letters it asks for, make up a word of your own, or find the word it requests.  Another product that the child can use with less adult guidance than others.
http://www.toysrus.com/product/prodpop.jsp?LargeImageURL=http%3A//TRUS.imageg.net/graphics/product_images/pTRU1-2786851dt.jpg&displayTab=enh&productId=2266012&totCount=0

Melissa and Doug See n Spell Learning Game.  This brand has never disappointed.  They may need help with it at first, but should figure out how to do it independently pretty quickly. You can also ask them to spell your own words using the wooden letters.
http://www.melissaanddoug.com/see-and-spell-learning-game?alt=1

Melissa and Doug talking alphabet puzzle allows kids to hear the sounds letters make as they take the pieces in and out.  You can also use this later to have the child spell sight words.
http://www.toysrus.com/product/prodpop.jsp?LargeImageURL=http%3A//TRUS.imageg.net/graphics/product_images/pTRU1-2789209dt.jpg&displayTab=enh&productId=2267358&totCount=0

If you are lucky enough to come across Puppet Farm at a garage sale like Aly's Grammy then snatch it up.  This fun, nine book easy reader set with matching finger puppets retails for $70 used and as high as $405 new on amazon.
http://www.amazon.com/Puppet-Farm-Caryn-Jenner/dp/1582091293

I got a deal at our local Marshall's on Match It sets by Learning Journey, only $5.  I grabbed the Rhyme edition.  Rhyming is a Kindergarten standard in Arizona.
http://www.amazon.com/The-Learning-Journey-Match-Rhyme/dp/B000HKVX18

I like to use the Step Into Reading Level 1 books for reading. They offer a variety of titles from favorite Disney characters to Bugs and Dancing Dino's.  I find these at our local Kid to Kid store for $1 or buy them new at Barnes and Noble.
http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/big-bear-little-bear-disney/1110627442?ean=9780606263917

We also love the Now I'm Reading Series by Innovative Kids.  This series is great for many reasons.  You can buy travel size versions of the books in a little collection of ten phonics books that are kept in place with clear plastic holders and the whole kit n kaboodle has a magnetic closure.  The books come with stickers that reward the child for reading the books.  There is a special spot in the front of each book for the stickers.  They also offer additional supplies like a word dominoes game.  It also has reviews and comprehension questions to guide parents with teaching reading and comprehension.  We got our first 20 books and parents guide for free through a children's book club.  I've found them every where from Albertson's to local independent toy retailers.
http://www.innovativekids.com/content/view/204/400/

Don't forget workbooks.  My daughter loves doing workbook pages.  I got an idea from Pinterest to put clear plastic sheets in a binder, slide the workbook pages in, and use white erase markers so the pages can be used repeatedly.  We call this her busy book and also bring it to restaurant or places she will need to be entertained for a while.  We like School Zone workbooks but their are also good Sesame Street themed ones available at our local Dollar Tree.

Let me know what products you like for teaching reading in the comment section.

Learning to Count by 5's

Learning to rote count by fives is a Kindergarten standard in our state of Arizona.  Actually, skip counting by 2's, 5's, and 10's are all part of Kinder standards.  This post is about how I am teaching my daughter to count by fives.  I have multiple tools in my teaching bag for this one!

• There is a dot to dot book we got from Barnes and Noble for $4.95 that is called Dot to Dot Count to 50 by Balloon Books.  At the top of each page there is a number line that shows counting by fives visually. 
•  There is a pop style song and video by HaveFunTeaching on Youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_awKlEMyleA that encourages kids to dance and sing the count by fives song.  Studies show that most boys learn better when they are moving so a video such as this that has some dance moves and hand clapping will more likely help boys memorize counting by fives than the rote method of just repeating.
• We also found  a Curious George game on the PBS Kids website called "High Five" http://pbskids.org/curiousgeorge/busyday/fives/ that allows the player to place a painted high five hand of George's on a canvas and counts by fives the number of prints the player makes.  You can also have it repeat the count when you are done.
• Using a white board, chalk board, or paper, trace the whole families hands. Right the numbers counting by fives inside the hands.  How many fingers are in your family? Lay them on the floor and have your child count by fives.
• There is also a free app by Little Monkey Apps called "Teaching Number Lines" that allows you to both practice and test skip counting by 2's, 3's, 4's, and 5's.

 Let me know how you teach your child skip counting in the comment section.

Advanced Toddler Shapes

My daughter learned her shapes very early.  Many parents teach their children shapes before kindergarten and it seems to be a subject that interests them.  Many parents ask me what to work on next once the child has mastered the basic shapes.  Once your child knows the basic shapes ie square, circle, triangle, rectangle, diamond, heart, and oval have them identify attributes of the shapes.  How many corners? How many sides? Is it flat or round?  Will it stack or roll?  Identifying attributes of these shapes will allow them to identify new shapes faster.  After that, introduce the next level of shapes ie crescent, pentagon, hexagon, heptagon, octagon, rhombus, parallelogram. Then you can introduce more specific shapes such as the different kinds of triangles.
OK. I am aware of how totally crazy it sounds that I'm teaching my three year old the difference between an isosceles and scalene triangle, but it's not as nuts as it sounds.  It started with an app called Toddler Teasers. The app offers a variety of subject matter from such as animals, camping, fractions, shapes, and numbers with different levels of difficulty from square and circle to scalene triangle.  I set the game to advanced and selected only shapes.  I hadn't paid attention to what would be taught in the advanced level, but I knew she mastered the level she was on so why not?  One day I notice she's playing the game and identifying the different kinds of triangles.  It teaches scalene, isosceles, right, and equilateral triangles.

As always I created a lesson to reinforce learning.

First game- Eat Me a Triangle

1) Pick out different foods that are straight: pretzel rods, yogurt tubes, granola bars, fruit twists, whatever.  Open it or leave it in the packaging.
2) Draw and identify the different triangles for your child describing the attributes.
3)Then ask them to form a triangle using the food.  If they get it right then can eat it!

If the different triangles are a new concept. Try giving hints.  For example, if you have an equilateral triangle you could tell them they need three foods the same length.  For a scalene, they need three different lengths.


Second Game- Paint Me a Triangle

Same procedure as Eat Me a Triangle but with paint.  Draw three lines making four columns on the paper. Draw the triangle and write the word for each. Paint a triangle yourself. Point out attributes. Have the child copy.  Show how the isosceles looks like a Christmas tree, the scalene a mountain, a square can be drawn in the corner of the right triangle, an equilateral has three side the same like the instrument the triangle.

Third Game-  Triangles in Motion

I gave Aly some saying with motion to remember the triangles.  We scale the scalene triangles and pretend to  climb a triangle mountain.  We make an isosceles tunnel with our legs being the long sides and the floor the short.  Crawl through each others tunnels.  I have to admit, I don't really crawl.  I basically lay still while she walks over me, but she still finds it hilarious.  I make an equilateral triangle with my arms and chest.  I make a right triangle with my upper arm being the bottom line, lower wrist to elbow the vertical line, and my other arm the diagonal.  Then I say, "I like my triangles right."  I move one of my arms up and down like a gate opening and closing as she runs past.

That concludes today's post.  Tell me in the comment section how your child likes to learn shapes.

Math Monster

Aly is learning to fluently add and subtract so I have been doing a lot of new lessons. I found this great website with free math games perfect for her at the age of three.  The website is fun4thebrain.com  It has a particular game she likes called Murb.  Murb is a world of monsters and we LOVE monsters in our house! You walk one monster into a diner. In the diner there are five different monsters. Each monster has a different job. One monster opens cans in the kitchen while another cleans up messes in the dining area.  They give an addition or subtraction equation based on which option you select.  Then you have to find the can, mess, dining patron, ect. that has the right answer for the monsters to do their job.
http://www.fun4thebrain.com/murb/murb.html

I always reinforce media learning with another non-media activity.  When we were done playing we got out the white board.  I would draw a monster with body parts based on the answer to an equation.  For example, yesterday we were working on our 1's addition table.

 I would write out 1+1=
Then tell Aly, "I'm going to draw 1+1 noses. How many noses will the monster have?
That's right, 1+1= 2 noses.

Repeat

"I'm going to draw 1+2 eyes. How many eyes will the monster have?"

1+3 arms
1+4 fingers
1+5 legs
1+6 hairs on his head
1+7 freckles on his face
1+8 teeth in his mouth

Be creative!

Aly is excellent at pattern recognition. Write out the equations neatly in a column and identify the pattern half of the way.  Have your child finish the pattern.

1+1=2
1+2=3
1+3=4
1+4=

Point out the relationship between the second number and the last number.  Show them the answers are ascending in order, 2,3,4, ect.  Have them repeat the whole equation when they say the answer. Initially they are just following the pattern, but by repeating the equation the are learning rote addition.

If your child is ready for more advanced math try an app for free called Sushi Monster.  Sushi Monster teaches decomposing numbers which is a kinder standard in our state of Arizona. Note decomposing number up to ten is the kinder standard and this game goes up to 20 at the easiest level.

Decomposing number means if you give a child a number than can tell you the different equations that equal that number. For example:

If you say 5

They know...

5+0
4+1
3+2
2+3
1+4
0+5

all add up to 5.

If you have  a little math monster like me tell me what games and activities you like in the comment section.

Sight Words- Action Words Game

Aly is a very high energy child. If she can learn in a way the allows her to jump, dance, make noise, and act crazy she's all over it!  That's how I came up with the Action Sight Words game.  A friend gave is a set of foam rectangles and foam letter stickers of various sizes and colors. Aly loved making her flashcards. We did two sided opposite cards.  For example, one side says MOM and the other DAD. One says SUN and the other side says MOON.  You get the idea I'm sure. I would let her pick a word, tell her how to spell it, and she would put the letters on the cards.  I made a series that had the following words:

• jump
• hop
• dance
• sing
• wiggle
• wave
• clap
• kick

First I started with just three words.  I pointed out the beginning letter and phonic sound for those words.  I told her the word the first few times we played.  Then I would just show her the card without saying the word. Next I added a new word in the same fashion as the first three.  Being active and learning sight words in a fun way...that's what I call creative learning. :)

Sight Words Game- Barn Yard Fun

I was on Pinterest one day and saw a totally awesome idea from the blog Juggling With Kids...Sight Words Parking Lot Game.
  http://www.jugglingwithkids.com/2011/10/sight-word-parking-lot.html?showComment=1319571243034#c5501857452008954589

She drew a parking lot on a large sheet of paper, wrote sight words in the parking spaces, calls a word, and her son parks a toy car in the right spot.  I thought this was a super cute idea and came up with my own variation.  I drew a barn, and wrote a different animal name in each stall.  Then I call out an animal and she places it in the right stall.  We use our Animal Planet Mother and Baby Playset. http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=4073732

Then I drew a " bush" and we used the little figures in her creepy crawly box which consists of bugs, reptiles, amphibians, and bats to play the same game again.

In Kindergarten they will be using the Dolch sight words list. While we work on those words as well, my main focus is to give her words she is interested in learning.  Reading any kind of sight word introduces your child to recognizing the order and shapes of the letters as well as building phonemic awareness.

My Favorite Learning Songs for Aly

Aly is very musical.  If she hears a song she likes, she wants it over and over until she knows the words.  Fortunately she doesn't care if  it's a princess singing about life as a frog or a song about shapes.  If you have a musical child like Aly songs a great tool in your creative learning toolbox. Here are our favorite educational CDs and videos.  This is simply a list, not reviews.

• Here Comes the ABC's from They Might Be Giants (Album and DVD)
• Here Comes the 123's from They Might Be Giants including a days of the week song (Album and DVD)
• KidsTV123 Phonics Song 1 and 2
• KidsTV123 Big and Small Letters Song
• KidsTV123 Letter Sounds
• Sesame Street Will.i.am What I Am
• Sesame Street Elmo sing the Alphabet Rap
• Sesame Street: J Jacket Song
• Sesame Street: V Violin Song
• 50 Nifty United States
• Have Fun Teaching Count by Tens
• Have Fun Teaching Count Down Song
• Early Learning at Home 1 Addition Tables Song 
• Early Learning at Home 2 Addition Tables Song

The Different Kinds of Schools

New Times, New Schools

When I was growing up there were basically three option for school: public, private, or home school.  Twenty years ago most private schools cost a small fortune, home schooling meant sitting at the dinner table with textbooks and worksheets all day, and public school was often simply adequate.  Times have changed and there are many options for parents to pick what is best for their child.

Public School-  from self-contained gifted classes that are often have students working multiple grade levels ahead of their peers, to bilingual programs, and more. Public school is recognizing the need to keep up with other educational institutions.  My niece is at a school that has am equestrian program allowing the children to take part in horseback riding during the school day.  Another school in the same district offers a bilingual track for students whose families enter a lottery.  Arizona allows you to send your child to any district you want.  If your school has cut the arts, you can send them to a different district.  Take advantage of these opportunities.

Private School- month to month payment programs, scholarships, and tax credit programs that allow others to donate their state taxes owed to an individual child's tuition instead of the state are making the private school dream a reality for families who might not otherwise be able to afford. Many parents are drawn to private schools for smaller class sizes and stricter discipline policies.  In addition, aspects like spiritual guidance or specialized curriculum are to good to ignore for families willing to make the financial commitment.

Charter School- the common description of a private public school can be confusing to some parents.  What this means is a private school style education using public funds.  The idea behind charter schools was if an academic need demanded in a community was not being met, individuals could open up a charter school to fill that need.  Charter schools offered in the Phoenix Metro offer specialized curriculum in the arts, technology, accelerated academics, equestrian studies, all girl's school, foreign language/bilingual, Montessori, and more.

Virtual School- some parents call this home schooling but it is very different.  Virtual schools like K12 offer teacher support, free materials, field trips, and are still considered part of the public school system.  This program is appealing for families whose students are competitive in athletics, pursuing careers in the arts, travel, or like learning on their own schedule.

Home School Co-op- want to home school but have concerns about your abilities or the time commitment? Consider a co-op, multiple parents working together to home school children.  Some home school support groups teach weekly classes in special area subject matter such as art, music, p.e., foreign language, ect.  There are also stores that specialize in home school curriculum that teach academic subjects such as 7th Grade Science or Geometry.  Form your own co-op or find one already established.  Alternate weeks at different parents houses teaching from an agreed upon curriculum that meets all the students needs.  Think old-timey-one-room-school-house style.

Home School (Single Family)- this is a family that chooses or creates their own curriculum entirely up to their own discretion.  There are many curriculum materials available to home school parents these days in a variety of media besides the more traditional textbooks and workbooks.  Through state associations and home school support groups students can take band, go to prom, have graduation ceremonies, and more.  In the Phoenix Metro there are many programs such as Science Fairs and academic classes through  the Arizona Science Center, earth science through Desert Botanical Gardens, classes at the Phoenix Zoo, and more for home schooled student.  Home schooled student are also allowed to participate in specials at public school.

What is important to know when selecting a school?

1) Private schools and charter schools are privately run by individuals who may or may not have a background in education.  They do not have restrictions like the public school for hiring certified teachers.  Make sure your private or charter school runs criminal background checks on all employees and teachers.  Confirm that state standards are being met at each grade level.

2) Charter schools that are highly desirable may have waiting lists or use draw names randomly.  The school may give preference to siblings.

3) Some public schools are classified as Excelling while other are Failing.  Know where your school stands.  What does it take for a student to get expelled in your district?  How far will they let bullying go.  At what point will they hire a new teacher if their is a sudden influx of students?  Will they allow 30, 35, 40?

4)  If you participate in a virtual school program you may not attend specials at your local school in many districts in Arizona.  Some programs such as K12 may provide your student with a computer if they do not have one.   Virtual schools may be ahead or behind the public school curriculum. K12 Virtual School curriculum is about a semester ahead of the Arizona state standards.

5) If you home school or home school co-op you need to file a declaration to home school with the state or risk facing truancy issues.  Home schooling students can attend competitions such as spelling bees and geography bees at their local school.  Home schooling student may also participate in extra curricular activities and specials at their local public school.

6) For all schools, consider what is offered for specials, language, technology, arts, clubs or extracurricular activities, and of course, academics.

7) In junior high and high school students can earn college credits through co-enrollment.  Co-enrollment means the student actually attends a college level class either at high school or through the college directly. Parents should know if a student earns college credit in high school at the institution they plan to attend after graduating, the grades from classes taken during high school will be factored in to their college GPA.  Advanced placement classes prepare students to take a test that waives the requirement for the student at college, but does not award them credits for the class.

15 Ways to Give Your Child a Better Education

Regardless of whether your child goes to public school, home school, or something in between there are ways you can develop their love of learning and improve their education.  Here are fifteen suggestion in no particular order.

1)  Love Unconditionally-  It may seem like a big "DUH" to most parents, but some parents need to be reminded to let their kids know they are proud of them for trying their best.

2) Know Your State Standards- Make sure your students are learning everything they need to know.  Occasionally some teachers teach to the standardized tests leaving little time for social studies and science.  If your child then gets a teacher the following year that expects them to already know standards that may have been deficient in another classroom they might struggle.

3) Identify Your Child's Learning Style- There are three learning styles: kinesthetic aka tactile, visual, auditory.  If your child is struggling with a subject, you may find it is only being taught using one learning style that isn't theirs.  Work on their homework with them in a way that addresses their learning style.  More on this in a future post.

4) Identify Your Child's Dominant Multiple Intelligences- once again, knowing how your child learns and what their intellectual strengths are allow you to work with your child in a way that will keep them interested and successful.  More on Howard Gardner's theory in a future post.

5)  Feed the Brain- consider their school day schedule when planning their meals. Carbs will give them a burst of energy for physical activity which would be needed at lunch going into recessor for a morning starting with specials like PE or music.  If your student starts whole morning is academic mostly sitting at a desk, consider starting the day of with protein.  And don't forget those Omegas!

6) Take a Field Trip- is your preschooler learning about apples? Visit an orchard? Is your first grader studying the rain forest? Visit the rain forest habitat at the zoo. Is your fourth grader studying state history and culture? Visit a battlefield or southwest museum depending on where you live.  I think you get where I'm going with this.  Want a field trip idea? Tell me what your child is studying, what grade, and where you live I will recommend a field trip.

7) Understand Gender Learning Difference- Did you know boys commonly learn better if they are physically moving? That is one reason the traditional classroom environment of sitting quietly at a desk is better suited for girls.  More about this in a future post.

8) Know Developmental Milestones- How many blocks should a three year old be able to stack?  What physical and emotion milestones are expected? Check out this link for ages 5-8 http://www.babycenter.com/big-kid#band1

9) Use What They Like- if curriculum allows, let them pick their own silent reading materials on whatever subject they like.  Check out their toy box for math manipulatives. Talk about the math and science involved in skateboarding or gymnastics.

10) Creative Learning Through Play- don't underestimate the value of free time.  Social interaction can be an important part of free play. Develop their vocabulary by having dialogue  with your child while they play.  What character is your favorite?  What does he look like? What accessories does he have?

11) Advocate for Your Child- whatever your child's need are,  be sure they get met.  If they are gifted, get them tested for gifted programs.  If they have physical disabilities, make sure they have a 504, IEP or similar equivalent.  Are they being bullied? Talk to the teacher, team leader, principal, or whoever until it is addressed.

12) Use Technology- let kids make their own movies, record songs, play learning games, make digital art, take pictures, create a webpage, or whatever they'd like, but don't forget t supervise.

13) Communicate- have a dialogue with your student about their life.  What happened at school? Who are there friends? What to they like best or least about their teacher? What's their favorite special?  Check out my upcoming posts 5 Questions to Ask About Homework and 5 Questions to Ask About Their School Day.

14) Real World Application- it is important that students understand what they learn in the classroom has real world application.  If they are learning about money, let them go shopping.  If they are learning about fractions have them help bake a cake or slice up the pizza for the whole family.

15) It Takes a Village-  think about all the adults involved in teaching your child: classroom teachers, teacher aids, specials teachers, daycare, babysitters, coaches, private lesson instructors, spiritual leaders, friends, family, internship directors, and I'm sure I missed somebody.  Are all these educators on the same page as you for manners, behavior, and discipline?

Creative Early Learning Math

Creative Early Learning Math with Manipulatives

Math happens to be a subject my daughter loves.  Since she was one, she's been counting objects and asking about shapes.  It's pretty easy early on for kids to learn the basics because there are a bombardment of toys, puzzles, and books covering basic math concepts such as numbers 1-10 and shapes.   But what comes next?  Not all parents are familiar with the difference between rote counting and  rational counting or are familiar with the vocabulary terms used by teachers such as math manipulatives.  This post will cover some vocabulary terms used in education, how to use as manipulatives, and what can be used as manipulatives.  When I discuss a state standard, that means they should know this information by the end of the school year for that grade.  I am also discussing the standards for our state which is unfortunately ranked 48th in the nation for education.  The k12 online virtual school curriculum is about a semester ahead of our state.  Search for your state's department of education webpage, find standards, and select your child's grade level or subject.  For math apps look at my previous post on how to use apps and video games to reinforce learning.  If you like saving money check back over the next few days for my DIY manipulatives.

Defining Vocabulary

Rote Counting- Counting through the practice of speaking the subject matter repeatedly.  In other words, when you practice counting with your child simply by saying "1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10."  In the state of Arizona Kindergarteners are expected to be able to rote count to the number 100 by ones and tens. First Graders should be able rote count to 120 by ones, twos, fives, and tens.  They should be able to rote count forward from any number. For example, if you say "18" then child says "19, 20, 21..."

Rational Counting- Counting objects with a number representing an amount.  For example, if there are seven frogs the child touches each frog giving it a number if 1-7.  In the state of Arizona Kindergarteners are required to count rational count to 20, first graders to 120.

Skip Counting-  When I was a kid we were just asked to count by twos, fives, or whatever number.  These day it is commonly called skip counting.  For example, a teacher might ask can you skip count by fives to 50.  Which would sound like 5, 10, 15, 20, 25....  As mentioned above, Kindergarteners should be able to skip count by tens and First Graders by twos, fives, and tens.

Manipulatives- The description is somewhat implied in the root of the word. Objects that can be manipulated to represent and explore mathematical equations and concepts.  Common math manipulatives in the early education classroom would be counting beads, those little cubes that are used to teach place values,   three dimensional shapes, paper clips used for measuring, ect.  There are many great store bought products that are packaged specifically as manipulatives.  While some of these products are very original and well worth the expense, you can also you items from your local dollar tree or household items.

Creative Learning with Math Manipulatives

The best math manipulatives may already be in your house.  Does your son have every super hero action figure?  Does your daughter aim to collect every Squinkie or Zooble?  When it comes to manipulatives for rational counting, skip counting, measuring, addition, subtraction, multiplication, or division use the toys or household objects they already love.  I feel the need to say if your child is at a developmental level where they still explore the world by putting objects in their mouth, avoid any objects that are choking hazards.

Here is a list of common things you could use as manipulatives:

candy pieces- chocolate chips, sprinkles, Reese's pieces, M&M's, ect
snack food- goldfish crackers, fruit snacks, yogurt drops
craft supplies-  pom poms, rhinestones, sequins, beads, stickers, fake flowers
play jewelry- rings, bracelets, necklaces, hair bows
toys- stuffed animals, baby dolls, Barbie Dolls, trains, cars, action figures, character figures, blocks, legos, balls, tools, puzzle pieces, animals, bugs, play food, pretend place settings, board game pieces, nesting cups
household- paperclips, clothespins, band aids, cotton balls, qtips, rubber bands, small 2-3 oz paper cups,

How to Use Manipulatives 

A recent "game" I came up with for Aly is an addition subtraction lesson.

My materials are:

white board about 12x15 (substitute chalk board or paper on a flat surface)
white erase markers  (substitute chalk, or numbers from puzzle, or magnetic fridge numbers)
 manipulatives- I use a collection of about 40 small bugs, reptiles, and creepy crawlies we have collected from various places but mostly the local Dollar Tree

Directions:

1) Sitting on the couch with Aly next to me, I put the white board across our laps centered more towards her. I place the box on the side of me opposite my daughter where she can't reach.

2) I ask, "How many bugs are on the board?"
Aly: zero
Mom: That's right.  I'm adding one bug to zero bugs.

3) I write the equation while slowly talking through the equation like a word problem.
Mom: One bug plus zero bugs equals how many bugs?
I write:  1+0=

4) Wait for her to answer.  Validate the correct answer or effort.  I write the answer to the equation and repeat, "That's right. 1+0=1.  Can you say that?"

5) I add bugs for equations up to 6 with the highest equation being 1+5=6.  Then do the same with subtraction until there are no bugs.

6) Then I erase all the equations and repeat the activity until we are through the whole box of creepy crawlies.

If your child is writing well have them write the equations on the board.  Once they can quickly recite their addition and subtraction facts within number 1-6, increase to 10.

Other Ways to Use Manipulatives

1) Measuring objects- measure how many paper clips (substitute any small manipulative) long their baby doll and other toys or books are.  Which book is the longest? Which doll is the tallest?

2) Place Values- use legos to represent ones, tens, and even hundreds for older children.

3) Word Problems- If Mom has 3 cookies and Aly has two cookies, how many cookies are on the table?

4) Geometry- How many popsicle sticks do you need to make a square? Triangle? Pentagon?

5) Comparing values- greater than less than, most and least...Which paper plate has more beans? Least?

6) Patterns- red bead, striped bead, heart bead, red bead striped bead heart bead... What comes next?

How to use apps and video games to reinforce learning

I frequently get asked what I use and how I teach my daughter the subjects of math and reading.  One great tool our generation is privileged to have is technology. There are mixed opinions on the positives and negatives of exposing children to media.  Well, my daughter watches TV, plays video games, and sings pop songs from Kidz Bop.  She also reads, has math knowledge listed in our state's third grade curriculum, and can categorize and graph scientific data so I don't think her exposure is hindering her educational development. It's all a matter of how you use these technological tools. There are virtual books, apps, video games, learning songs on YouTube, and so much more.  It is not enough to just make a play list of videos or download the games.  You need to actually use varied forms of media and other tools to reinforce skills you have worked on together.   Don't just introduce a concept in a single game or episode of their favorite show and expect it to stick.  Make it the lesson of the week.  This post will include how to use different learning tools to create a lesson for your child, an example of how I've done that with Aly, apps we love for learning, and a DIY activity described below.

An Example of How to Use Multiple Learning Tools to Teach the Same Lesson

We are currently working on phonics blends.  Many parents know to teach their children the basic phonic sounds of the letters.  The next step is phonic blends, which are sounds such as SH, CH, WH, TR. One activity I've seen done in a Kindergarten classroom involves sorting pictures based on the phonic blend sound.  You select four phonic blends and place each one in its own section of a four section tray.  Then, the students are given picture cards to sort. For example, using the sounds mentioned above the cards might be pictures of a shark, a chair, a whale, and a train.  We have a DIY set of these I came up with to practice phonic blends. See the end of this post for how to make your own set.  In addition to having a hands on activity, we also have a learning app on my iPhone by Brain Beanz called Blend Seeker.  It is a video game that basically does the same thing.  My daughter loves sea creatures so the star fish and other under sea characters make this game extra fun for her.  When they answer correctly enough times they get a virtual sticker for for that specific blend. When they select that sticker, they are given a review.  The review contains a sea anemone that says, "I'm hungry. Feed me." Then bubbles float up from the sea floor with pictures.  You need to select the right pictures for that phonic blend or it says "Yuck!"  Then continue the lesson by reading a book containing words with the blends from your activity.  Point out the word to the child.  Saying something like, "Look, a whale. What are the first two letters of the word whale? What sound do those letters make together."   Follow it up with an episode of Word World.  A specific one I like is the one where Shark is introduced.   Duck thinks he is a sssss-hark and doesn't find out until the end that he is a Sh-ark.  They episode addresses how letter sounds can change when two specific letters combine.

So we have had a hands on activity, a video game, a book, and a TV show.  Take it one step further by identifying any signs in the mall, reading labels on food products, or someone t shirt that has a blend you know.  That is what I call Creative Learning.  Depending on your child's age and development consider explaining simply to them why they need to learn blends.  I tell my daughter, "When you know all the letter sounds you can read a book all by yourself!"
Keep in mind that this is actually a Kindergarten standard for Arizona.  It may take a few tries before your child gets the concept, especially if they are in the 2-3 year range.  When teaching younger children concepts intended for older children:
1) Be patient.
2) Show them how to do it the first couple times.
3) If they struggle, allow them to copy you.  Then when they are confident, introduce one new card.
4) If they get upset, stressed or bored quit the activity.
5)Be positive and tell them what they did well at the activity.

You can use this reinforcement technique for any number of subjects.  I have even designed lessons around a specific episode of a TV show she likes.  While math and reading are impressive subjects for showing off your child's knowledge, don't forget the focus should be a well rounded education.  There are science, social studies, art, music, technology, and physical education standards included in states curriculum for a reason.  Teach to what your child is enjoys. Not every 3,4, or 5 year old will want to sit and sort phonic blends.  If they like bugs, make it a science lesson about what bugs need to live, like to eat, where they live, or if they go through metamorphosis.  Don't assume a subject matter is too advanced if they seem engaged and interested.   If you would like help developing lessons for your child, leave a comment with their age, favorite thing, and what subject or skill you want them to learn.

DIY Phonic Blend Sorting

My DIY version of the Kindergarten store bought set I saw involved some sort of sorting tray, paper, and stickers.  For the tray you can use whatever you already have: an egg carton, a sectioned child's plate, Tupperware lunch container, scrabble tile holders, or just plenty of room on a flat surface. Find a list of phonic blends online. One link I like is  http://www.enchantedlearning.com/consonantblends/
Cut at least 3-4 paper squares for each blend sound.  Use stickers or drawing pictures with markers that have beginning sounds that match the blends.  Show them how the game works. Consider rewarding them with a special sticker to wear.

My Favorite Learning Apps

These are all apps I use with my 3 year old daughter.  Some apps have content that meet standards as high as fourth grade while others are very basic.  These apps are in random order but are all Aly and Mommy approved.  This is just a list of what we use, not reviews.  If you have a specific question about an app post it in the comment section.

Science

1) Earth Science Flashcards by Kindergarten.com
free

2) Animal Flashcards by Kindergarten.com
free

3) Sid's Science Fair by PBS Kids
$2.99

4) Smarty Shortz 1st Grade by Smarty Shortz LLC
$2.99 for all subject or .99 for just science

5) Complete Toddler Preschool by Toddler Teasers
Worth spending $2.99 for all 30 categories rather than .99 for each category.
Science categories include Tools, Seasons, Mammals, Birds, Fish, Reptiles and Amphibians, Bugs, and Animals.

6) Learn Sharks by Live Doodles
free

Social Studies

1) Stack the States Lite by Dan Russell-Pinson
free for the lite version, worth buying for older kids
If your child like this they might like Stack the Countries Lite, though we haven't tried it yet.

2)Smarty Shortz 1st Grade by Smarty Shortz LLC
$2.99 for all subject or .99 for just social studies


Virtual Books

Smurf Classics by istory time
free
Dog Story by TabTales
free
Wizard of Oz by TabTales
free
Meet Biscuit by istory time
free
Wow Wow Wubbzy's Pirate Treasure, GoodTalkApps,
$1.99

Math

1) Team Umizoomi Math by nickelodeon
$2.99

2) Jungle Time - Learn to Tell Time by Andrew Short
.99

3) xGerms Counting by k12 Inc
.99

4) Math Train Free Addition Subtraction by App-Zoo
free

5)  Complete Toddler Preschool by Toddler Teasers
Worth spending $2.99 for all 30 categories rather than .99 for each category.
Math categories include Shapes, Numbers, Money, Fractions, and Roman Numerals with beginning and advanced levels of play.

6) A 2nd Grade Pattern Recognition by Nth Fusion
.99

7) 1st Grade Math: Splash Math by StudyPad Inc.
free

8) Smarty Shortz 1st Grade by Smarty Shortz LLC
$2.99 for all subject or .99 for just social studies

9) Teaching Number Lines by Little Monkey Apps

Language and Reading

1) Dora

2) If You're Happy and You Know It

3)Complete Toddler Preschool by Toddler Teasers
Worth spending $2.99 for all 30 categories rather than .99 for each category.

4) Hot Dots Jr Beginning Phonics by Educational Insights
.99 or free for the lite version

5) First Word Sampler by learning Touch
free

6) ABC Phonics by Abitalk
free

7) Blend Seeker by Brain Beanz
$1.99

8) Phonics Awareness by Bugbrained
free

9) ABC Letter Tracing by Critical Matters, Inc
free

10) Build a Word by WordWorld
lite version is free, .99 for full version

11) Grammar Fun by Paradox Software
free

12) Sight Words Flashcards by App-Zoo
 free

13) ABC Phonics Rhyming by Abitalk
free

14) Phonic Vowels- Short by Abitalk
free

Reviewing Starting and Back to School Books

In my post Back to School Fun I mentioned getting a book with content that discusses starting or returning to school.  So today we went to our local Barnes and Noble who had a great display right as you walk in the kids section of back to school themed books.  There are three general themes addressed in the back to school books: behavior, daily routine, and emotion/anxiety.

Books That Address How to Behave

How Do Dinosaurs Go to School?
Jabe Yolen and Mark Teague
This is a good book for Kindergarten and lower grade elementary that starts by showing dinosaurs behaving in all the wrong ways.  The last three pages show the dinosaurs behaving well.  There is also a list of the different kinds of dinosaurs pictured in the beginning.

David Goes to School
David Shannon
We are fans of the David books in our house so I figured this would be the one coming home with us.  In the usual David fashion he hears a lot of "No" but it ends on a high note of David learning the right behavior and earning a gold star.  Good for PreK and Kindergarten.

Books that Address Emotions and Anxiety

S is for School
A great book for PreK and Kindergarten featuring Sesame Street character about how to make friends, dealing with loneliness, and feeling homesick.  This is also my bargain pick at $3.50 it will fit into most families budget.

Little Wolf Goes to School
Mary Packard, Lisa Mc Cue
Possibly my favorite of all the books.  With a heartfelt story short enough to keep a youngsters attention and beautiful illustrations this book is well worth the $7.95 at Barnes and Noble.  Good for PreK and Kindergarten.  Little Wolf asks all his friends what he will be learning at school.  He is afraid to go to school because he is not good at any of the things his friends listed, but he soon finds he has his own special talent to contribute.  Great for kids who are worried about not knowing material.

Countdown to Kindergarten
Alison McGhee
Cute book specifically for Kindergarten.  The girl hears all kinds of strict things about Kindergarten including you have to tie your own shoes.  This book is by far the funniest of all the books I read as she deals with the stress of starting school without being able to tie her shoes.  Great book for kids with concerns of inadequacy.

Pete the Cat Rocking in My School Shoes
Eric Litwin James Dean
This book addresses the daily routine of school but also gives you a tool for dealing with anxiety. Whenever Pete tries something new he sings his song about Rocking in his School Shoes. Hear the book and song for free at http://harpercollinschildrens.com/feature/petethecat/audio/Pete-the-Cat-Rocking-in-My-School-Shoes.mp3
Teach your child to use this song when they are doing something new.  Of course you might end up having to buy some new shoes designated "school shoes for rockin."

Books that Address Daily School Routine

Berenstain Bears Go Back to School
Stan, Jan, and Mike Berenstain
Aside from my affection for this series, this is my favorite book in this category.  Not only does it address the matter of daily routine, it discusses bullying briefly.  It shows kids that when someone bullies there will be an adult that makes them face the consequences for their action, which is ideally what happens at school.  It also specifically mentions first grade and third grade

Off to School
Barron's Educational Series
A cute bus shaped book good for PreK, Kindergarten, and any early elementary grades that might be riding the bus for the first time.  This book goes through daily routine including getting on and off the bus.  It shows how the students will be dropped off at the bus, picked up by a teacher's aid at school, and brought back to the bus.  This is a good one for any child having anxiety about riding the bus.

Mouse Goes to School
Kate Stone
Fun board book for PreK and Kindergarten.  My daughter enjoyed the alternating pages opening in different directions. Short pages for short attention spans that gives the general idea of a PreK or Kindergarten daily schedule.

It's Time for Preschool
Esme Raji Codell
This is a detailed book covering every possible subject matter your preschooler will experience including: manners, sharing, circle time, fire drills, naps time, field trips, and more.  When I saw another mom looking at it I said, "Great book, huh?" She replied, "Yeah, but it's a little long."  and it was reshelved.  You might want to read this a few pages at a time so you don't overwhelm your preschooler with all the information on these pages.

If You Take A Mouse To School
Laura Numeroff
From the popular series featuring a cookie loving mouse comes a fun book for early elementary grades introducing what a possible daily school routine could include.

Gingerbread Man Loose in the School
Laura Murray
A quirky book good for elementary grades about the creation and adventures of a gingerbread man unsupervised in a school.  Good book for middle and upper elementary grades that will be expected to navigate around the school unaccompanied at times.


Nemo Fish School 
This book is a longer read than the others so generally better for second grade and up. A popular Disney character takes you through his day of school as a fish.

Other Books

Phineas and Ferb The Best School Day Ever
This book was featured in the back to school display, but other than having the word "school" in the title this is not relevant.  It is about Phineas and Ferb creating a stunt school.  Fun book for Phineas and Freb fans with a full sheet of stickers, but not useful tool for back to school subject matter.

Curious George School House Fun
An interactive book that comes with a pop up school house, punch out characters, and two books.  One book introducing shapes and one introducing numbers to ten.  While we are Curious George fans, the books in this set are very basic and of no use to us.  If you have a child who does not know this information or would benefit from using the characters to role play school situations it might be worth the purchase for you.

Questions to Ask at Open House

I remember being so excited as a child to go to open house.  Meeting the teacher, seeing my name on a desk, finding out which friends are in my class were the highlights for me as a kid.  As a parent it's very different. Not all parents know what they are allowed to ask or what their expectations should be for their child's teacher.  If you fall into that category, I'm here to help you out.  I turned to my mom who taught for about 15 years for some expert advice.

What You Should Expect from Your Teacher

1) Lesson plans available for viewing.
You can request to see a teachers lesson plans for the coming weeks.  An experienced teacher should basically have their whole year planned.  Newer and first year teachers may be doing their lesson plans month to month.  You should see in the lesson plans the subject matter and what state standard is being met.

2) Clearly established discipline and consequences.
Most teachers post rules visibly in their classroom, but these rules can be interpreted differently.  Some teachers are much stricter than others when it comes to rules like talking out of turn.  Make sure you and your student understand that teacher's rules and consequences.

3) A clear list of school supplies.
They should have a straight forward list of what your student will be needing during class time.  Don't forget additional supplies they may need for after school care, lunch, and medical supplies or prescriptions to be kept at the nurses office or in class depending on a child's individual needs.  Does the teacher need an inhaler or epipen in her desk?

4) Positive feedback and constructive criticism.
The teacher should be regularly communicating in some way whether it be phone calls or written messages.  You should not suddenly find out at report card time a grade was lower than expected or a student is struggling.  Also teachers should be positive and constructive with their comments.  Teachers should NEVER belittle or degrade students in private or in the presence of other students.  If this happens to your child or another child, do not be afraid to take it up with the teacher, principal, or higher up figure in the district.

What You Should Ask at Open House

1) Does the curriculum meet state standards? Exceed?
With growing pressure on teachers to achieve high test scores, sometimes social studies and science get pushed aside with more focus on tested subjects.  Asking about state standards and checking to see if adequate time is in her schedule for these forgotten subjects will give you an idea of whether or not that teacher is meeting state standards.  Some districts in Arizona are a semester ahead, while other districts suffer with meeting state standards.

2)What are your classroom rules?
This goes back to the above clearly established discipline and consequences.  Some teacher's are straight forward three strikes and then the principal while other teachers only send students to the principal for severe behavior. Which teacher do you have?

3) How do you teach to the different learning styles?
Ideally teachers address all learning styles throughout the day.  Some teachers use centers to engage all learning styles while others just design there lesson plans around a specific style like visual learners.

4) How do you engage students?
Whether  a student has ADD or is just uninterested in the subject, what will they do to keep students actively participating?

What Your Teacher Expects from You the Parent

1) You are also responsible in the early grades for your student's homework getting completed. Ask them when you pick them up if they have all their homework and books.  Reading is often part of their homework either involving reading to your child or being read to by your child.  Follow through and check to see if their work was handed in on time.

2) Look at the grades on the homework being sent home.  Is your child struggling. Contact the teacher and find out what you can do at home.

3)Communication.  If your child has a special need in any way, medical or academic, let the teacher know.  This includes if your child is gifted and advanced in a certain subject matter.  Let the teacher know if there is something at home affecting your child's behavior.  Are they losing sleep? Struggling with emotional issues related to divorce or a death in the family.  Communicate!

4) Manners and Citizenship.  Sadly many schools have had to step up and add character building to their curriculum.  In my opinion this is something that should be addressed at home, but apparently is becoming more commonly forgotten.  Make sure your children know how to act respectfully to staff and students. Discuss how to react to various social situations such as bullying or taking turns with friends.

Back to School Fun

 This year my daughter is going to start preschool of sorts through the Mom's Day Out at our church.  Here in Arizona many of our districts are in their second week of back to school, but Aly doesn't start until September.  We have had a wonderful summer of LOTS of quality time. While I feel very blessed to have this time with my daughter, by the end of the summer it results in her demanding my constant attention and refusing to leave my side.  Oh boy! How are five hours away from mom going to go over? So I came up with some ideas to get her looking forward to school.

1.   Picking out a new outfit. My daughter is already a fierce fashionista at the age of three.  Whether it's a new accessory, like a bright, blinged out pair of sunglasses, or a whole outfit depends on your budget.  For my daughter an occasion calling for new clothes makes it special!  Is money too tight for new clothes?  Figure out a new hair style with online how to guides such as Pinterest and YouTube.  Grab some ribbon in the school colors and weave it into a braid.

2.  Shopping for back to school supplies.  Aly was very excited to be getting new school supplies.  Markers basically translate to "We will be doing something fun" in Aly's world.  This can also include lunch supplies.  While school supplies tend to be very specific, lunch can be a time for self expression.  Lunch boxes, cold packs, thermoses, lunch skins, sandwich containers, water bottles, sandwich cutters and more help make the idea of eating lunch without mom more exciting.

3.  Get a book about going to school. Today I plan on hitting our local Barnes and Noble to browse selections such as T is for Teachers, First Day Jitters, Kindergarten Rocks, and anything else with such subject matter.  If you can't afford a book check out your local library or tell your child about a positive first day school experience of your own.

4. Friends.  Aly is a combination social butterfly and only child, so for her the pull of friends is very strong.  Talk about friends you know will be in their class and how exciting it is to make new friends.  Tell them about any friends you may currently have that you met in school.  Maybe even reserve a play date for friends from school.

5.  Attend open house if available. If not available ask if you can have a tour.  Walk your child through where they will start their day, go to the bathroom, drink from the fountain, play at recess, eat lunch, and meet you after school.  Make sure they feel confident in who to ask or where to go if they need help.  Meet all the teachers.  Kids are very excited about home room but don't forget they also have library, music, art, technology, physical education, and sometimes language.  Introduce your child to all the adults and rooms that will be part of their routine schedule.

6. Make the first day of school an occasion to remember!  I am a Pinterest addict and I love an idea I saw shared for a back to school breakfast. It came from Sweet Designs by Amy Atlas.  http://blog.amyatlas.com/2011/08/back-to-school-roundup-part-ii/
She used lined paper to make a breakfast place setting school themed.   Super cute Amy!
You can also make a back to school craft with your child.  Let them make a crayon wreath or teacher appreciation present for the first day of school.  Target also has a great line of back to school cards with inspiring messages for a successful year.  Make a back to school scrapbook.  Take a picture recording fun facts like their grade, age, favorite subject, things they currently like, and what they are most excited about for the first day. Pull it out each year to see how they have grown and recapture that first day excitement.

Well I can't wait to celebrate our first day of Preschool! Le tme know how you make your children's first day back to school extra special in the comment section.

Why I Want to do an Educational Blog

I honestly believe that the majority of parents want their children to receive the best education available while creating kids who love to learn.   In a perfect world class sizes are small, budgets unlimited, technology readily available, there is always time for creative play, the arts are embraced, learning styles, Multiple Intelligences, and gender differences are addressed by educator's who are there because they love working with children.  In reality, as far as I know, this learning environment doesn't exist.  But that doesn't mean your child has to be deprived of the education that comes from these factors.  You can always compensate for what might be missing from your child's education if you are interested in taking the time.  My goal is to create a blog that teaches parents how to give their child the best education regardless of whether they are in public, private, charter, virtual, co-op, or home school.  I personally believe that learning should be fun.  I plan to share the ideas I've used with my daughter and in the classroom as a teacher to get kids involved in what I call creative learning.  When I refer to creative learning I'm talking about teaching in a non traditional way.  Catering lessons to children's individual interests and learning styles while simultaneously strengthening the subject matter that is weaker or less intriguing.  Stepping beyond the world of desks, worksheets, and standardized testing into a world of hands on, jumping, laughing, playing, and testing done through real world application of content matter.

Together we will explore through my upcoming posts: Identifying your Child's Strengths and Learning Styles, 15 Ways to Better Their Education, How to Create a Love of Learning, Creative Learning on Vacation, 5 Questions to Ask at Parent Teacher Conference, Creative Learning Before Kindergarten, 5 Questions to Ask Your Child About their School Day, Creative Learning with Exceptional Children, and What's Going On Inside Your Head?!  I also look forward to answering any questions from readers.